A note about affection: it's good to start small, a touch on her lower spine will make her warm towards you, and quietly going up behind her to cuddle is less freaky than the full on front hug, and she can easily walk away if she’s uncomfortable. You can also (if you are somewhat friends and the kind of person who would be kind like this) say you want a hug sarcastically and most girls (this is coming from a girl) will giggle and hug you. :)
Remember this: Do not just come out and openly say that you like her because that would put her in an awkward position and the results might not be what you want them to be. Ask her, "What color are my eyes in a soft nice voice." To maintain eye contact look one eye and then the other (repeatedly) instead of staring.
Give her a real compliment and tell her why--not a list--girls don't like too many compliments; it starts to freak them out. A guy will become the total opposite of a crush if he is too much of a fake and seems as if he is just doing a "job" on them. Be slow, cool and calm about it. Laid back--but not like you don't mean it.
Say "Hi" in the hallway, if you happen to walk by her. This will tell you whether or not she wants to say hi by her facial expression.
If she looks like she would say hi back, then go for it. But if she doesn't, try another time.
Be friendly, but do not crowd her.
When you smile at a girl it makes her feel great
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